I don’t remember when my wife and I started talking about our past selves and our future selves, but for years we’ve been doing it as a way to motivate ourselves through tough moments, especially when we’re making our lives difficult in the present to help ourselves in the future.
“My future self had better appreciate this,” we’d say as we pulled old carpets up on New Year’s Eve so we wouldn’t have to do it after we had moved in and put all our furniture on top of it. Or when we set up an automatic direct deposit to a savings account that tended to leave our checking account pretty empty by the time the next paycheck rolled around.
Somehow, picturing our future selves not having to stress about a flat tire or unexpected medical bill made it easier to save in the here and now.
We may have been on to something with that.
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